Friday, January 29, 2010

It's been a while...

Unfortunately, it's been far too long since we wrote on our blog last. School and work have taken priority and have kept us too busy. Unfortunately we never finished our reading and analysis of the health care bill (which has changed since the summer anyway).
We actually never made it out to University of Pennsylvania, due to monetary reasons and Joel is still studying at Bloomsburg University - going for a dual degree in philosophy and political science.
Dana now has a full time job (another reason not to move).
The holidays were nice but busy with family home. Overall life is good here.
Hope all is well with you.

J&D

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Notes on HR 3200: A response to Rick Joyner's "Special Bulletin: National Health Scare"

The health care reform debate is a huge topic right now and there is much heated rhetoric flying back and forth. But how do we know who is right? How do we know what to believe?

Dana and I have been interested in health care reform for about 2 years now and support a single payer system. We see fundamental problems with how the profit motive has conflicted with quality health care in the US private insurance market.

In the past few days we have received a link to something that Rick Joyner wrote about the health care bill being currently considered in the House of Representatives. It contains a number of claims that Dana and I find to be suspicious - especially the claim that this bill would encourage euthanasia and set a massive bureaucracy which would decide who lives and who dies (i.e. what care will be given or not). Rick likened this bill to Nazi Germany or Stalinist Russia.
These are big claims and must be examined. At the end of the bulletin is an "outline of this bill [HR 3200] put together by Mat Staver of the Freedom Foundation and Liberty Counsel"

This outline of the bill is what prompted me to actually read the bill. Dana and I support change to the health care system, but we really should be looking at what exactly the bill actually says. The Devil is in the details.

Therefore what follows are links to the house bill, the afore-mentioned Bulletin and a set of notes I will be taking as I read through the bill.

Links:
Special Bulletin: National Health Scare by Rick Joyner
Text of HR 3200 (PDF)

Huffington Post also has HR 3200 available for reading online where one can leave specific questions or comments about lines in the text. The Link is:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/07/14/health-care-bill-released_n_232206.html

Notes:
  • Pages 1-5 outline the purpose of the bill.
  • Pages 5-8 lay out the contents of the bill.
  • pp.8-14 - definitions.
  • p.15 - January 1st 2013 is when government regulations begin for "Qualified Health Benefit Plans" (QHBPs) - all new health insurance plans, public or private, would be regulated for "affordable coverage," "essential benefits," and "consumer protection"
  • p.16 - all insurance plans that began before Jan. 1 2013 will be "grandfathered" into the system.
  • p.17
    • "RESTRICTIONS ON PREMIUM INCREASES.—The issuer cannot vary the percentage increase in the premium for a risk group of enrollees in specific grandfathered health insurance coverage without changing the premium for all enrollees in the same risk group at the same rate, as specified by the Commissioner."
    • In other words, insurance premiums cannot be increased for any individual without also increasing the premiums for all others in the same "risk group"
  • p.17 - Grandfathered plans will have 5 years grace period to comply with new regulations.
  • p.18 deals with exceptions
"Subtitle B—Standards Guaranteeing Access to Affordable Coverage"
  • p.19 - (IMPORTANT!!!) This Law (if passed) will prevent health insurance companies from denying coverage to patients on the basis that they have some preexisting condition or other health problems.
  • p.20 - Health insurance companies will not be able to dump coverage of a patient without notice.
    "Rescissions of such coverage shall be prohibited except in cases of fraud as defined..."
  • p.21 - sets up regulations on price variations by age, area, and individual vs. family rates so that the prices can't be excessively high for one group.
  • p.22 - sets out rules on how the health commissioner will study the effects of this health reform bill and report to congress after a year and a half.
  • p.23&24 - This section empowers the health commissioner to lay out rules to prevent discrimination in health benefits.
  • p.24 - (IMPORTANT!!!) The Health Comissioner will set a minimum "medical loss ratio" - the percentage of each dollar from insurance premiums that insurers spend on actual health care. If the company spends less on health care than the minimum medical loss ratio then they have to refund their clients.
  • For instance, if the comissioner requires 90% of each dollar to be spent on actual medical care (instead of overhead costs or profits) but an insurance company only uses 80% of their income on providing medical care, then they would have to repay their customers the 10% not used on actual health care.

  • The commissioner is to set the "highest level medical loss ratio possible ... to ensure adequate participation ... competition in the health insurance market ... and value for consumers so that their premiums are used for services."
Subtitle C—Standards Guaranteeing Access to Essential Benefits
  • pp.26-7 - Limits cost-sharing, gets rid of annual or lifetime limits on insurance payments.
  • pp.27-8 - Essential Benefits include: hospitalization, outpatient and emergency services, prescription drugs, rehabilitation, mental health & substance abuse services, preventative health, vaccines, maternity care, baby & child care...

  • p.29 - (IMPORTANT!) Contrary to the claim made in Rick Joyner's bulletin that page 29 in the health care bill establishes health care rationing, this section of the bill actually caps the amount of pocket money a person must put out for medical treatment and stops the use of "co-insurance" where the insurance company only pays a percentage of a medical bill.
  • pp.30-7 - Establishes an "advisory committee" of "medical and other experts" (who will not be Federal Employees!) called the "Health Benefits Advisory Committee." They will "recommend covered benefits and essential, enhanced, and premium plans." Members of the board are to be drawn from all parties involved (doctors, consumers, insurance companies, unions, employers, financial experts, etc.) so as to "represent a balance among various sectors of the health care system so that no single sector unduly influences the recommendations of such Committee."
  • (IMPORTANT!) Contrary to the portrayal in Rick Joyner's bulletin of a "government committee that decides what treatments/benefits you get," this committee will actually be composed primarily of non-government sector experts who will be establishing minimum standards of care that insurance companies may not go below.
  • The way the system operates now is that insurance companies regularly deny coverage of, or restrict treatments in order to save as much money as possible (their real goal is the maximization of profits after all). This bill has set up a correction for this problem. Pages 26-8 set out minimum requirements for care and pages 30-5 merely establish a committee which will be responsible for updating and clarifying these minimum standards.
  • pp.36-7 - Adoption of Advisory Committee's Recommendations - The Secretary of Health and Human Services will either adopt the standards set by the committee or send back the recommendation for review.

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Friday, July 24, 2009

America’s Role in the World: Morality, Hypocrisy and National Interests

Growing up here in America, the ideas of what America stood for in the world were ideas of greatness, leadership, honor, courage, justice, equality, democracy and freedom for all. I saw America as a light in the darkness, a city on a hill, a beacon of hope. The American dream was the dream of freedom, opportunity and prosperity. I had little reason to doubt this narrative. Everyone I knew believed this, my schooling reinforced what they said, and politicians of both parties appealed to these great “truths.” And judging from talks with friends and family, this vision of America’s role in the world remains strong. Unfortunately the popular notions of what America stands for and the facts of American foreign policy are hardly connected. The rhetoric is almost Orwellian, but the truth is waiting for those of us who have caught a hint of the hypocrisy. However, undertaking a research project and questioning comfortable assumptions are not things most Americans feel inspired to do. The horrors of September 11th 2001 caused many Americans to question why anyone would hate America so much. Unfortunately President Bush painted terrorists as irrational agents of pure evil who hate us for our values and our freedoms. The problem is, that’s just not the case. As Jim Wallis says:
It is impossible to comprehend adequately the terrorist attacks of September 11 without a deeper understanding of the grievances and injustices felt by millions of people around the world. That is a painful subject that the US government mostly refuses to engage, the media avoid, and many Americans are unable to hear when they are feeling such mourning, grief and anger. …But the US policies that most anger people around the world are generally unknown to most Americans... (Wallis 96-7)

Given this, we must ask the question: What are these policies that anger people around the world, and why would the US pursue such policies? In answer, I argue that contrary to popular perception, foreign policy has been driven by a philosophy of “political realism” (a.k.a. power politics) with the aim of achieving so-called “national interests” by whatever means possible while masked in language about democracy, freedom and security. I will explore the examples of Iran from the 1950s to ’79, Colombia from the Cold War to present, and Pakistan as an ally in the “War on Terror.”

Although not totally uniform, political realism can be defined as “a school of thought that explains international relations in terms of power.” (International Relations, 35) Realism emphasizes states as primary actors exercising power for self-interest in an inherently anarchical international community. International law and codes of morality are seen as mostly irrelevant because self-interest is the primary motivator. Realists have tried to understand international relations in terms of the reality that people and thus states act in perceived self interest. On the other side of the spectrum is the idealist or liberal position, which emphasizes states as acting within an international community where law and norms should play a significant role. Realists have “blamed idealists for looking too much at how the world ought to be instead of how it really is.” (International Relations, 36) In reality, American foreign policy has been directed by a mixture of these positions in complex ways but, as I will show, perceived interest has played a decisive role in causing the US to support actions totally opposite of our stated American values. Even when US presidents have been seen as being motivated ideologically rather than through cold calculated interest, this has been the case. The question of whether the Bush or Reagan administrations believed their own rhetoric that they were fighting “evil” and thus could not negotiate with “evil” is beside the point. They both worked with clearly evil regimes to advance “national interests.”

The issue of self-interest when talking about states is problematic. The realist assumption that states are unitary actors is merely an oversimplification. States are made up of many different groups and individuals – interest groups, bureaucrats, politicians, lobbyists and the public in general – who compete to determine which interests will be represented in foreign policy decisions. Issues of group psychology, cultural norms and competing models of decision making, complicate this. However, generally speaking, those with more power and resources at their disposal, i.e. business interests, will inevitably have a louder voice and dominate the agenda. American foreign policy often does not represent what is in my best interest. Human rights usually take a back seat to the material interests of the powerful. George Kennan, the “architect of the US’ cold war grand strategy of containment… summarized the role that the US policy was to play in fashioning a global political economy conducive to US interests in the immediate post-war period. Kennan argued that ‘[The US has] about 50% of the world’s wealth, but only 6.3% of its population … [thus] Our real task in the coming period is to devise a pattern of relationships that will permit us to maintain this position of disparity’.” (Stokes, 371)

The example of US’ support for the Shah of Iran is a significant one. In 1951, the Shah Mohammad Reza and The Anglo-Iranian Oil Company (later British Petroleum) were facing a huge danger in an outbreak of democracy. The British were profiting in a major way from the Anglo-Iranian Oil Company which had sole claim to Iranian oil, giving to Iran only a token amount of profit. After WWII, “a loose coalition…known as the National Front” sought to restrict the monarchy and enact reform. “Most important, the National Front, angered by years of foreign exploitation, wanted to regain control of Iran's natural resources, and, when Mosaddeq became prime minister in 1951, he immediately nationalized the country's oil industry.” (Britannica) Britain naturally opposed this as the major beneficiary of the previous relationship and placed an embargo on Iranian oil with the help of the Americans whose oil companies would later gain a large stake in Iranian oil. In operation Ajax, the CIA staged a coup overthrowing the democratically elected government, and reinstating the Shah as the absolute monarch in 1953. The Shah then proceeded to oppress all opposition to his rule. “All forms of social and political protest, either from the intellectual left or the religious right, were subject to censorship, surveillance, or harassment by SAVAK, and illegal detention and torture were common.” (Britannica) Douglas Little points out the role of the US thus:
…After considerable prodding from Washington, in 1957 the shah created SAVAK, a Farsi acronym standing for the National Intelligence and Security Organization. Headed by Teimur Bakhtiar and trained by the CIA, for two decades the SAVAK relied on Gestapo tactics—arbitrary arrests, torture, and murder—and a huge network of informers to snuff out opposition… A quarter century after Operation Ajax, the shah’s Iran had become an oil-rich police state, thanks in large measure to help and encouragement from U.S. intelligence. (Little 666)

As we can see, behind the history of the US enmity with Iran which lasts till today, the reason for the Iranian uprising in 1979 is the not so oft spoken of subversion of their democratically elected government, CIA training of secret police and use of torture, all in the name of upholding American national interests.

Iran however is not a lone anomaly in the history of US foreign policy. US support of oppressive dictatorships in South and Central America such as Chile under Pinochet, and the training of soldiers in the School of Americas using manuals which “advocated torture, extortion, blackmail and the targeting of civilian populations” (SOA Watch) have a long history. “During the cold war the US intervened in more states in Latin America than on any other continent, with US sponsored counter-insurgency (CI), the primary means of US coercive statecraft.” (Stokes 368) From the Cold War period up to today, Colombia has been among the biggest recipients of US military aid. On the face of it, this policy seems justified. Colombia is a democracy fighting communist guerillas and the drug trade. However, the methods used by the Colombian military and paramilitaries have suppressed democracy for years. An AI report on US military aid to Colombia says “Colombia has been one of the largest recipients of US military aid… Yet torture, massacres, ‘disappearances’ and killings of non-combatants are widespread and collusion between the armed forces and paramilitary groups continues to this day.” (Amnesty)

In Colombia during the Cold War, just as in the war on terror, there was no obvious way to tell an insurgent from anyone else unless they engaged in combat. Thus, labor leaders, human rights activists, dissidents and opposition leaders, educators, and religious leaders who criticize government policies have all been targeted by the military and by paramilitaries. Increased participation in labor unions, student activism, protests, strikes, letter writing to criticize the government and “the appearance of questionable doctrine in the educational system” have all been seen as signs of potential threat. (Stokes 373-374) This policy appears not to have changed. Amnesty International points out that
“The Colombian Commission of Jurists has documented that between July 2002 and June 2005 [paramilitaries] assassinated or forcibly disappeared an average of 1,060 persons each year. Just recently, on January 31, 2007, a human rights defender named Yolanda Izquierdo was killed in the Department of Cordoba by gunmen suspected of being linked to army backed paramilitary groups. …Meanwhile, reports documenting the ongoing direct responsibility of the security forces in human rights violations, including reports issued by the United Nations, are abundant.” (Amnesty)

Human Rights Watch points out that “Colombia has for years had the world’s highest rate of killings of trade unionists. …more than 2600 since 1986… The suspected killers are often members of mafia-like paramilitary groups which have had close ties to military, political and business figures. In 95 percent of cases, the killers have never been caught or prosecuted.” (Roth) Regardless of the justifications of fighting drugs or terror, the policy is totally contrary to American values, yet “despite overwhelming evidence of continued failure to protect human rights the State Department has continued to certify Colombia as fit to receive aid… [continuing] a policy of throwing "fuel on the fire" of already widespread human rights violations, collusion with illegal paramilitary groups and near total impunity.” (Amnesty)

The more we look into the dark history of US foreign policy, we find that the torture, abuses and contempt for international law are not limited to the recent war on terror that President Bush declared after 9-11 but are merely the latest revelations of such action. The policy of support for Colombia in spite of abuses continues today, as does US support for Pakistan as a key ally in the war on terror. Musharraf, the president of Pakistan who took power unconstitutionally was a serious offender of human rights and as of 2006 Human Rights Watch “documented a pattern of ‘disappearances,’ arbitrary detention, and torture by the Pakistani security services in counterterrorism operations across Pakistan.”

The problem is, that it is precisely this history of hypocrisy which has caused untold grievances, not only in the Muslim world but on nearly every continent, that has sparked the anger and hatred of those who oppose US hegemony. US officials spout beautiful rhetoric about promoting freedom and respect for human rights and then turn around and promote so-called national interests at the cost of all that our great nation supposedly stands for. Clearly this pursuit of hegemonic power to dominate the international system has worked against us. We’ve sold our souls for wealth and are paying the price. Nevertheless, I believe our nation can be great, as a leader in democracy, freedom, and the pursuit of peace around the world. This will take a true commitment to place human rights at the top of our agenda. This can be accomplished only when we as Americans get informed and practice true democracy by demanding that our leaders refuse to pursue narrow and shortsighted interests and be true to our great ideals.

Sources:
Wallis, Jim: God’s Politics: Why the Right Gets It Wrong and the Left Doesn't Get It. Harper Collins, New York. 2005.

Goldstein, Joshua S. & Pevehouse, Jon C. International Relations – Brief Fourth Edition. Pearson Longman, New York. 2008.

Stokes, Doug. ‘Iron Fists in Iron Gloves’: The Political Economy of US Terrorocracy Promotion in Colombia. British Journal of Politics and International Relations: 2006 Vol. 8 pp. 368-387.

"Iran." Encyclopædia Britannica. Encyclopædia Britannica 2007 Ultimate Reference Suite . Chicago: Encyclopædia Britannica, 2008.

Little, Douglas. Mission Impossible: The CIA and the Cult of Covert Action in the Middle East. Diplomatic History Nov2004, Vol. 28 Issue 5, p663-701.

School of Americas Watch (SOA Watch): SOA Manuals Index; Accessed March 6th 2008
http://www.soaw.org/article.php?id=98

Amnesty International. US Military Aid To Colombia. Accessed December 1st 2008
www.amnestyusa.org/all-countries/colombia/us-military-aid-to-colombia/page.do?id=1101863

Roth, Kenneth. Delay Consideration of Colombia Trade Deal. Human Rights Watch. Nov. 14 2008. Accessed Nov. 30, 2008. www.hrw.org/en/news/2008/11/14/delay-consideration-colombia-trade-deal

Pakistan: Torture in Counterterrorism Should Top Blair Agenda. Nov. 16, 2006. Accessed Nov. 30, 2008. www.hrw.org/en/news/2006/11/16/pakistan-torture-counterterrorism-should-top-blair-agenda

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News of the Big Move

It's been a long time since we've written anything here. Bloomsburg University has been a great place for Joel but the work load has meant leaving off writing here. Now however after 3 semesters at Bloom U, Joel is transferring to University of Pennsylvania. He will be majoring in philosophy and South Asian studies. We are very much looking forward to this move to Philadelphia where we will be back on our own again.
Thanks for keeping up with us.

Peace

An Open Letter to the Editor and to our Representatives on Health Care

The “Medical Loss Ratio” is what tells investors how profitable an insurance company is. It measures the percentage of each dollar paid in on premiums is actually used for patients’ medical expenses. The average is around 75% (down from 95% in the 1990s).

The goal for profit industry is to maximize profit for investors. In other sectors of the economy this works well. However, with health insurance companies this means that rather than providing quality care to patients who need it, the business focuses on reducing the Medical loss ratio as far as possible. To satisfy Wall Street they actively seek to insure those who are statistically the healthiest while dumping those patients who are the most costly. Is this how health care should operate? With an insurance company bureaucrat standing between you and your doctor?

Health insurance companies systematically use preexisting conditions to deny coverage to patients who get sick and become a cost to the company. Over half of all bankruptcies are due to medical costs. Roughly one in six Americans are uninsured. Although the medical equipment and training in America are among the best in the world, this has not translated into a healthier society.

We must reform the system. Health care must be a guaranteed right provided to all, no bureaucrat standing between a patient and their doctor. Who can accomplish this? We the people can and must. Our elected representatives have the moral responsibility to represent the people’s interests.

Friday, December 05, 2008

Sweatshops in Asia

Saturday, May 24, 2008

Sweet Memories

Sweet Memories of Good Friends

After quite a longish time of not blogging - we're back! Just a quick recap - we are now in the US, Joel is studying Philosophy at Bloomsburg University and loving it. We're living with Joel's parents and brother, and I am currently looking for a job.

Cool exciting thing - we just returned from our trip to Indianapolis and Minneapolis. First, in Indianapolis, we visited with some good friends. Then we made the 10 hour drive to Minneapolis where we attended a conference for people interested in India, as well as visiting with friends and our 'family' from Varanasi. Needless to say, we really miss India :(

It was wonderful to see everyone, we wish we'd had more time together, but then, such is life, kya kare?

Here are some pics that will always remind us of good times with special friends.





Driving through Indianapolis



With Dr Mal & Wilma Long


Stylish Charis


Then Dana got a turn at being stylish


Reading a book with Benjamin


At the Museum of Natural History in St Paul


Joel being funny


Benjamin pedaling on his own


Out of the 3 times we saw Arjun, two he was sleeping


Minneapolis


Entering PA in the wee hours of the morning, after a looong night of driving


Thursday, November 22, 2007

Happy Thanksgiving!

Today is the American holiday of 'Thanksgiving', a tradition in the States which is among my favourites. Today families join together for good home-cooked food, to spend time together, watch football, and to celebrate all that we have to give thanks for.

Unfortunately for the past 6 years I have been too far away and without enough money to return to celebrate with my family at my grandmother's house, as I did every year until moving to India, getting married and all. It's been good though. Every year since leaving home 6 years ago, there have always been friends (regardless of nationality) around to celebrate the day with - best of all my lovely wife. :-)

Today we wanted to share with you some of the things that are happening here which we are thankful for.

For a long time now, Dana and I have been planning to return to the States to continue studying and finish up the paperwork required to be free to live inside or outside the US as we choose. Many of you know that the process of applying for Dana's visa to come to the States has been a long and complicated one. So we're very happy to let you all know that we are finally very near the end, and that we're now just waiting for an appointment date for our interview at the US embassy here in Romania. This is the very last step in the process where the final approval is given. We are hoping and praying that this will take place by the begining of January! :-)

We also would like to announce that in mid January, I will be starting school at Bloomsburg University in the philosophy department. This is a step that I've been waiting a long time to take and we are both excited for me to finally get back to school!

Because of this, Dana is able to quit her job at the British School. Her last day is just a little more than a week away. This last month or before moving to the States, we wanted to spend with family and friends while we can. Also, the job has been a hard for her and the travel to the other side of the city every day has been quite time consuming. I have to say that I'm very much looking forward to spending our days together this coming month. :-)

Other good news is that this past month I finally got my residence card for Romania (which would allow me to work here if we were staying longer). This is a good thing because it will make it much easier to spend longer amounts of time here without having to leave the country every 90 days and is a step toward potential dual citizanship.

There are a lot of unknowns in our future right now, and although the unknown is scary, and we feel torn between 3 continents and our friends and family scattered across the globe - wishing we could be in 3 or so places at once - we feel that this is the right direction for us and we are so thankful that these opportunities are finally coming to being.

We hope you've had a great Thanksgiving (even if you didn't celebrate it) and that you have a great day.

Peace and Shanti

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Thursday, November 08, 2007

the Lamp of Hope School - आशा दीप विद्याश्रम

This non-profit school for underprivileged children in Varanasi (run in the same building that we used have our Hindi language classes in) is run by some good friends from our years in Varanasi. The excellent work that the school does is quite encouraging. If you want to know more about their work and perhaps support them, they now have a very good website which you can find by clicking here.


To read page one of this brochure click on the image below

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Monday, November 05, 2007

Today's Quote: On Love 2

"I know that people can be beautiful and happy without losing their ability to dwell on this earth. I cannot and will not believe that evil is man's natural state...

A dream they say... I shall go further: let it never, never come true, let paradise never be... ...I shall anyway go and spread the word. And yet it could be done so simply: in a single day, in a single hour everything would be settled! One should love others as one loves oneself, that is the main thing, that is all, nothing else, absolutely nothing else is needed, and then one would instantly know how to go about it. It's nothing but an old truth, repeated and read billions of times, and yet it has not taken root.
...If only everyone wanted it, it could be all done at once."


Fyodor Dostoevsky, from his short story 'The Dream of a Ridiculous Man'

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Monday, October 22, 2007

Today's Quotes: On Love

"Dear friends, let us continually love one another, because love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born from God and knows God. The person who does not love does not know God, because God is love. ...If we love one another, God lives in us, and his love is perfected in us. ... God is love, and the person who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him."
'The Bible' - 1 John 4:7-8, 12 & 16


“Let us speak then of love. What does it mean to “love” something? If a man asks a woman... “do you love me?” and if, after a long and awkward pause and considerable deliberation, she replies with a wrinkled brow, “well, up to a certain point, under certain conditions, to a certain extent,” then we can be sure that whatever she feels for this poor fellow it is not love and this relationship is not going to work out. For if love is the measure, the only measure of love is love without measure... One of the ideas behind “love” is that it represents a giving without holding back, an “unconditional” commitment, which marks love with a certain excess. Physicians counsel us to eat and exercise in measured moderation and not to overdo either. But there is no merit in loving moderately, up to a certain point, just so far, all the while watching out for number one (which is, alas, what we are often advised by a decadent “New Age” psychology)... Love is not a bargain, but unconditional giving; it is not an investment, but a commitment come what may. Lovers are people who exceed their duty, who look around for ways to do more than is required of them. If you love your job, you don’t just do the minimum that is required; you do more. If you love your children, what would you not do for them? If a wife asks a husband to do her a favor, and he declines on the grounds that he is really not duty bound by the strict terms of the marriage contract to do it, that marriage is all over except for the paperwork. Rather than rigorously defending their rights, lovers readily put themselves in the wrong and take the blame for the sake of preserving their love. Love, St.Paul said in his stunning hymn to love, is patient, kind, not puffed up or boastful; it bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things (I Cor. 13). A world without love is a world governed by rigid contracts and inexorable duties, a world in which – God forbid! – the lawyers run everything. The mark of really loving someone or something is unconditionality and excess, engagement and commitment, fire and passion. Its opposite is a mediocre fellow, neither hot nor cold, moderate to the point of mediocrity. Not worth saving. No salt."

From 'On Religion' by John Caputo

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Tuesday, October 16, 2007

A Day in the Mountains



Two Saturdays ago we spent the day with a group of friends driving up into the Carpathian mountains to a huge dam and lake and then a little further up the road for a picnic. It was great. ;-) Although they were calling for rain, the day actually ended up becoming a little sunny. But it's now clearly autumn/winter weather here with a sudden bout of cold weather. The leaves are falling now though maybe only a third of them have fallen by now.
The day out was great. Dana had a very good time playing with our friends' 4 month old girl Alma, a beautiful baby. :-) And I had a good time building the fire, helping the guys on the grill, and taking all these pictures (below).
Over all we're doing well. Dana's job is demanding and she has to travel to the opposite side of the city and out to get there too. It's quite a stressful job for her, so we usually end up not going out with friends much, but it's been nice to do that too. I'm keeping busy with a bit of paperwork that we're working on now as well as helping out with the construction of our church's new building.
We hope you're all doing well too.

Peace




Carpathian Mountains



Dana and Joel

The Dam Lake

The Guys working the Grill

Our Picnic

Dana and our friends's baby, Alma

The Girls

At the Dam

Looking out over the edge

The view from the top of the Dam

166 meter bungee jumping platform

It's a long way down

The Bungee Jumping Platform

The Dam Lake

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Monday, October 15, 2007

The Problem with Politics

Religion and politics are two of the biggest things that divide our world today.

Unfortunately Dana and I also happen to think that both religion/spirituality and politics are pretty important. And because of this, we've very often ignored the perfectly good advice that these subjects should never be brought up so as not to offend anyone. To make matters even worse, not only have we gone around talking about politics and religion to people in real life but also here on this blog (as I'm sure anyone who's bothered to check out our favorite links or past posts have noticed). The problem with the blog is that because we're not talking to you in real life, then we can't see if you might have a problem with anything we have to say, or if we might need to clarify what we mean, or whatever (like we said in our post on Facial Expressions).

Of course, everyone who reads this blog will have some sort of position on religion and politics. And this is not bad. Both religion as man's reach for God, and politics which is necessary for an orderly and just society, are very good things. Yet there are so many problems too, and I was just struck by this problem - the fact that the lines between people especially on issues of politics and religion cause division and then that division can turn into fear and mistrust and misunderstanding.

The reason this is on my mind is because I can see how it works in me. Of course, as I said before, Dana and I have a bit of a passion for political issues. We see that these issues really make a difference on how we all live our lives and the way our societies function. We've seen the impact that corruption can have on a society and so we want to have a voice in these areas too. But of course not everyone agrees with our ideas. And here's where the problem is. We may believe passionately in something and then when someone disagrees there can be a tendency to make the issues so important that they overshadow the relationship. I've seen this in myself. And I've had to fight this, because I firmly believe that the person and the relationship is far more important than opinions or the things we believe. I've seen how making our opposing opinions too important can overshadow a relationship. I do not want this to happen, and that's why I'm writing this. I want to apologise for all the times that I've failed in this way, and express what I see as the answer - the answer I'm working towards.


So here's the problem - we all think that our ideas are the right ideas (or else we wouldn't believe them ourselves), and we're usually pretty convinced that if someone else disagrees with our ideas, well, then they must be wrong! Of course this attitude can be dangerous, because we all know that everyone (even me) has been wrong at some point.
We're all just limited human beings who can and do get things wrong.
At the same time this doesn't mean that we're necessarily wrong - just that we should consider the idea. But I want to be clear that we can have strong convictions about what we believe and still remain humble and open to other people - knowing that we don't and can't have all the answers. You can know what you believe and why, and still be open to hearing from and learning from people who have different beliefs because there very well may be aspects that you or I have no idea about at all, or perhaps we may not have really understood the other. That's really the point I want to make. The problem isn't with knowing what we believe and why, but learning to also try to understand people who we disagree with.

So the problem that I want to focus on comes in when we group ourselves into camps of 'Us' vs. 'Them'. We naturally tend to hang around people who agree with us, and the talk can easily turn to how right 'we' are and where exactly 'they' are wrong. And because we've stopped communicating with 'them', all kinds of misunderstandings arise. From that inability to understand 'them' and how 'they' could possibly believe what they do or do the things they do, we stop being able to identify with 'them' as fellow human beings and we begin to see 'them' as our enemies.
It can so easily turn into a huge downward spiral.


So now, here is a solution that I'm trying to work towards in my own life.

Humility, Empathy, and Respect are the keys.
First of all, we start by recognizing that we don't have all the answers - we begin with humility seeing that we are limited, and that although we have reasons behind our beliefs and actions, we don't have all the answers. Then I think it's important to try to put ourselves into the shoes of the people we disagree with. When we try to understand them and really try to empathize with them, when we assume that they're like us and that they must have reasons for why they believe and act the way they do, then we can begin to respectfully communicate and truly understand them.

The amazing thing that we've been learning by trying to put this into practice and communicate with people who we disagree with, in a spirit of humility, empathy, and respect, is that it has broken down the barriers which separate 'us' from 'them'. People who on the surface seemed so incomprehensibly different or who were hardened against us at the beginning, have - when we tried to communicate respectfully, showing that we honestly wanted to learn from them - they have opened up to what we've had to say. In the process not only have we learned so much about them but also about ourselves.
Of course, this doesn't mean that we agree with everyone or that they will eventually agree with us. But understanding has been reached and we've found that by working together with people, so much more is possible.

Of course it's not easy. It can be quite hard to try to understand people who are so different from us - especially when the things we disagree about are important to us. But it's worth it.

It may be that no matter how respectful and open you are, there might still be people who will never be willing to respond, to make peace and try to bridge the divide. This can be difficult. Divisions may be terribly hard to overcome, but that problem certainly can't be solved by never trying to build the bridges in the first place. Trying to understand our 'enemies' may be difficult but the other option is to continue to live with the divisions and hatred which causes so much conflict.

In the end, in religion as well as politics, we have a choice to try to work together or work against each other. We've all seen what working against each other has done for our world. It's brought division, hatred, pride, and oppression and so on.
The choice to try to understand others and put ourselves into their shoes can be difficult - especially when they are our enemies. It goes against our every natural urge. But of course, we know that many times the hard thing is also the right thing.

Think about it. Who are some of the people we don't understand and whom we are divided against? Who are our enemies? Terrorists, Republicans, Democrats, pro-life, pro-choice, Hindus, Muslims, Christians, Buddhists, 'hawks', 'doves', Atheists, fundamentalists, liberals, conservatives, soldiers, anti-war activists, patriots and nationalists, universalists, realists, idealists…?

Whatever the divisions are, aren't we all first human beings loved by God and worthy of respect regardless of our associations?

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Thursday, October 04, 2007

Birthdays!

It's been a while since our last personal update on how we are and what's happening with us. We wanted to write because today is Joel's birthday. :-)

This week has been a good week for us - full of celebration with family with special meals for both Joel and Dana's father whose birthday is a day before Joel's. This past Sunday we had a cookout at Dana's Grandmother's house in the garden with Dana's family. Joel and Tata ('Dad' in Romanian) worked the grill. We had cake and stayed for the afternoon and evening. Then, both yesterday and today on our actual birthdays Mama made special meals and a cake and we exchanged a few gifts.

It's been nice to stay here in Romania though it's been hard too. Time with family after such a long time away is priceless. It's true that you don't know what you have until you don't have it anymore, as we've learned from our years away from family while we lived in India.
But this is also a bit of a hard time for us. Dana's job is demanding and so she feels drained a lot of the time, which means that we don't have as much time to spend with friends here. We're also still in transition, not adjusted yet from moving from India. Even though Joel can't get a job here in Romania and is waiting until January to start school, he is trying to use the time each day wisely. This time here in Romania is perfect for him to work on learning the language.

Over all, things are a bit difficult, but good. We are blessed more than even we realize. We hope you are doing well (whoever is reading this) and may peace be upon you.


Below are some recent pictures of Dana with old friends, and from our cookout on Sunday. :-)





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Wednesday, October 03, 2007

Today's Quotes

"Washing one's hands of the conflict between the powerful and the powerless means to side with the powerful, not to be neutral."

-Paulo Freire, author of 'Pedagogy of the Oppressed'


"If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality."

-Archbishop Desmond Tutu, the South African Nobel Peace Prize winner and champion of human rights against apartied.



Here is a link to an interview with Archbishop Desmond Tutu which we watched earlier this week on CNN's Talk Asia. It was quite good.

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Wednesday, August 29, 2007

A Prayer

असतो मा साद् गमय।
तमसो मा ज्योतिर्गमय।
मृत्योर्मा अमृतम् गमय॥

Lead me from untruth into truth.
Lead me from darkness into light.
Lead me from death into everlasting life.

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Thursday, August 23, 2007

'Iraqi bloggers at home and abroad'

Hey all,

I was just looking at the news when I came across this BBC article featuring Iraqi bloggers and what they've been writing recently. It's really amazing to read what they are writing. Just writing about daily things that anybody in the world can relate to like fishing, school, vacations, playing games, etc. but in the middle of this is the fear of violence, the bombs in the neighborhood, inability to travel... It was amazing because reading what they wrote, for the first time I could really see the human side of things there - people I could relate to and who, in a different world, could be my friends, neigbors, or relatives.
Just the other day I was talking to someone and telling them about what I learned in India - that the key to getting past the steriotypes about people who are different - Muslims, Indians, poor people, rich people, or whoever, you need to actually talk to them and when you do, to try to understand things from their point of view. For so long I've felt that this is what we need more of in the media about the war in Iraq. We need a human face to the war. But I never even thought of looking for Iraqi blogs. But here they are. It's sad, the stuff that goes on, and yet these people live there and make the best of it that they can. I won't go on though. They can say things much better than I can.
I'm posting links to two of the blogs I read. Check them out.

http://livesstrong.blogspot.com/
Sunshine is a 15-year-old girl in Mosul, northern Iraq.

http://last-of-iraqis.blogspot.com/
Mohammed is a 25-year-old dentist in Baghdad.

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Tuesday, August 21, 2007

Our New Slide Show on MySpace

Just to let you all know, we've added a new feature to our MySpace site. This slide show of all the pictures that we've previously posted to our blog here. :-) The older pictures are first but to see the newer pictures first just reverse the slide. To fast-forward just control the speed of the slide show. :-)

Peace (शांति),
J&D

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